My Dream Trip to Ladakh — A Journey Beyond Fear  

Posted by Divya A L

Ladakh was a place I had dreamt of visiting for years. But every time I planned it, fear held me back — fear of low oxygen levels, altitude sickness, and the harsh terrain. I had even dreamt of doing the famous Chadar Trek and experiencing winter Ladakh someday, but countless warnings from people made me postpone it again and again.

Finally, this summer, on April 20th, that dream became reality — one of the most unforgettable experiences of my life.

What made it even more special was deciding to take my son along. Before making that decision, I spoke to numerous people who had already travelled to Ladakh, asking endlessly about safety, precautions, and how children cope with the altitude. After a million conversations, reassurances, and careful planning, my close friend and I finally booked a customized package in March at a surprisingly good deal. Once the advance was paid, the countdown to the day began.

Yet, even after booking, there were moments when I wanted to cancel everything. Ladakh felt like a high-risk expedition rather than a vacation. But somewhere deep inside, I also felt confident that we could manage it. We mentally prepared ourselves for the worst-case scenario — if anything felt wrong after landing, we would immediately return.

The Flight Into the Himalayas

We boarded our early morning flight on April 20th and were scheduled to land in Leh by 6:30 AM. One thing I had planned carefully was our seats — left-side window seats towards the back row — purely for the mountain views. And honestly, that effort was worth every second.

As the aircraft flew over the Himalayas, the sight outside was surreal. Endless stretches of snow-covered peaks glowing under the golden rays of the rising sun looked like shimmering ice dunes. It was truly magical — the kind of beauty that leaves you speechless.

Day 1 — Acclimatizing to the Mountains

The landing temperature -13°. We were picked up from the airport by the travel agents and driven to our hotel. In Ladakh, the first day is strictly meant for rest and acclimatization because of the high altitude. We avoided any exertion and stayed indoors for most of the day.

As a precaution against AMS (Acute Mountain Sickness), we had started taking Diamox, and thankfully, Day 1 went smoothly for all of us.

Day 2 — Exploring the Beauty Around Leh

Our second day was dedicated to sightseeing around Leh, and every destination felt unique and memorable in its own way.

We began with the famous Hall of Fame, a place that deeply moved us. Built in memory of the brave soldiers who fought in the Kargil War, the museum beautifully showcases the sacrifices and challenges faced by the Indian Army. The sections explaining life in Siachen Glacier and the extreme hardships soldiers endure there filled us with pride and gratitude. It truly reminds you that the peaceful sleep we enjoy every night comes because someone is standing guard in unimaginable conditions.

Next came the fascinating Magnetic Hill — a surreal stretch where vehicles appear to move uphill even in neutral gear, giving the illusion that gravity itself is being defied. Experiencing it firsthand was both strange and exciting.

We then visited the breathtaking Sangam Point, where the Indus and Zanskar rivers meet. The contrasting colors of the two rivers flowing side by side without immediately mixing created a mesmerizing sight.

At Gurudwara Pathar Sahib, we heard the legendary story of Guru Nanak Dev Ji, where a giant boulder hurled by a demon is believed to have turned soft like wax upon touching the Guru. The sacred rock preserved there still bears the impression.

The day ended with visits to Shanti Stupa and Spituk Monastery. Both required climbing uphill paths, but the effort was rewarded with breathtaking panoramic views of Leh and the surrounding mountains. The peaceful atmosphere and stunning landscapes made it feel almost unreal. Our first shopping venture began here! 😀

After enjoying lunch at the vibrant Leh market, we returned to the hotel, carrying with us memories that already made the trip feel extraordinary.

Day 3 — Snow, Adventure, and the Magical Nubra Valley

Day 3 was undoubtedly the most exciting day for Dhrupad. It was finally the day he would see snow for the very first time — and not just that — he would also get to visit one of the world’s highest motorable passes, Khardungla.

After breakfast, we began our drive through the winding mountain roads. Even before reaching Khardung La, Dhrupad had already made a checklist of things he absolutely wanted to do in the snow:

  1. Taste and feel snow
  2. Slide on it
  3. Roll in it

And the moment we spotted snow on the way, the adventure began.

Dressed head-to-toe in waterproof winter gear, my little boy looked exactly like a tiny snowman. The excitement was beyond words. He rolled in the snow, threw snowballs, touched it endlessly, examined its texture, rubbed it on his skin, and kept experimenting with how it melted — or sometimes didn’t. Watching his curious little mind explore snow for the first time was truly priceless.

Since we had been advised not to stay at Khardung La for more than 15 minutes due to the risk of AMS (Acute Mountain Sickness), I initially thought these lower snow points would be enough for him to enjoy. But clearly, Dhrupad had bigger plans.

Khardungla, standing at around 17,988 feet, the excitement only intensified. Dhrupad proudly rounded it off to “18,000 feet” and suddenly decided he wanted to “summit” the nearby mountain. To my surprise, he climbed uphill like a professional climber while I constantly pulled him back in panic. This was also where he finally fulfilled all his snow dreams — not just sliding and rolling in it, but actually tasting and eating snow too!

What was meant to be a quick 15-minute stop stretched into almost 50 unforgettable minutes. Thankfully, we all managed well.

The journey downhill toward was equally breathtaking. Massive glaciers appeared alongside the roads, and towering walls of snow — nearly four feet high — lined our path. It felt surreal.

Another delightful part of the drive was reading the hilarious and creative road safety signboards put up by the (BRO). Some of our favorites were:

  • “Be gentle on my curves”
  •  "Don't be a gama in the land of lama"
  • “Blood donation is better in a bank than on roads”
  • “Better to be late than late Mr.”

Those witty messages brought plenty of laughter during the long mountain drive.

Finally, we reached the beautiful Nubra valley along the Shyok River and stopped for lunch, where we tasted Thukpa for the very first time — warm noodles and dumplings in a comforting soup that felt heavenly in the cold weather. I absolutely loved it.

However, around that time, Dhrupad suddenly started feeling uneasy. We suspected mild AMS symptoms. His oxygen saturation had dropped to around 80, which naturally worried us a little. We immediately gave him ORS, helped him practice deep breathing exercises that we had trained for before the trip, and monitored him closely. Thankfully, his oxygen levels gradually improved back to around 90, and he started feeling much better. We had also carried a portable oxygen cylinder as a precaution, which gave us additional reassurance during such moments. We later learned that oxygen fluctuations are fairly common even among locals at such altitudes.

And then came the magic cure — adventure sports!

The very mention of ATV rides instantly transformed Dhrupad’s “goodness level.” According to him, his energy and happiness suddenly shot from “10 million to minus180”! The moment he sat on the ATV, all signs of discomfort disappeared. By the time the ride ended, he dramatically announced that his sickness level had dropped to “minus 100.” He even warned us that the uneasiness might “increase again anytime,” so we had better quickly move on to the next activity!

Next came ziplining — claimed to be among the highest and longest ziplines in the world. Once again, Dhrupad’s “health meter” performed miracles. According to him, it went from “5 to minus 80 to minus 10,000” after the ride!

And then it was time for one of Ladakh’s most iconic experiences — the famous double-humped Bactrian camel ride.

The camel ride turned into one of the funniest memories of the trip.

The camels moved in pairs — a mother camel and its young one. Dhrupad sat on the younger camel ahead while I rode the mother camel behind. At one point during the ride, Dhrupad made a strange sound, and immediately the mother camel leaned forward and stared directly at him, almost as if warning him to behave. Poor Dhrupad got genuinely scared and instantly apologized sincerely to the camel. For the rest of the ride, the camel seemed to keep a close eye on him — and honestly, I kept a close eye on the camel too! Our motherly instincts were scoring high!

The surroundings there were unbelievably beautiful. A gentle stream flowed through the cold desert landscape, surrounded by snow-capped mountains and even a distant waterfall. The fresh mountain air, the earthy smell of the place, and the peaceful silence created a feeling of complete serenity and contentment.

On the way to our hotel, we visited the magnificent Disket monastry, which once again offered stunning panoramic views and a deeply calming atmosphere.

By evening, around 7.30, there was still some day light left we stopped mid way on the banks of the river just for the feel of the place. Then we finally headed towards our stay for the night — a beautiful property nestled amidst the mountains. The hospitality there was exceptional. One of the highlights of the night was a guided stargazing session on the hotel terrace. Under Ladakh’s crystal-clear skies, we could see stars, constellations,  shining brighter than ever before. Sirius sparkled like a diamond in the sky, alongside another brilliantly glowing star whose name I sadly can’t recall now. Finally we even got the most clear high resolution telescopic Pic of the moon !

Standing there under the infinite night sky, the nursery rhyme “Twinkle Twinkle Little Star” suddenly made more sense than it ever had before.

After a delicious dinner, we finally settled into our cozy heated beds — the perfect ending to a long, adventurous, and unforgettable day in Ladakh.

Day 4 — The Dream Journey to Pangong Lake

This was the day I had been waiting for the most — the day we would finally visit the legendary Pangong Tso.

After watching countless videos and photographs of the lake over the years, visiting Pangong had remained high on my bucket list for the longest time. And finally, that dream came true.

We started after breakfast on what turned out to be one of the most thrilling road journeys we had ever experienced. Calling it a “road trip” almost feels wrong because, for long stretches, there were barely any roads at all! Much of the route was pure off-roading adventure through rugged mountain terrain.

Throughout the drive, the beautiful Shyok River accompanied us like a guiding spirit, flowing beside some of the narrowest roads imaginable. At several points, our vehicle crossed the river directly through shallow waters, while at other places we crossed over hanging bridges swaying gently amidst the mountains.

And surprisingly, Dhrupad absolutely loved every bit of it!

At a couple of places, he even got down for nature breaks and ended up trekking around the nearby rocky slopes like a little explorer. Watching him climb around fearlessly made me realize that an adventurer was slowly being born.

We stopped midway for lunch, and one thing I must mention about Ladakh — even the tiniest roadside eateries serve incredibly delicious food, mostly with a simple homemade touch. Every meal felt warm and comforting after the long drives.

However, for curd lovers like me, Ladakh can be slightly heartbreaking! One day, I even had an amazing veg biryani served with all the ingredients of raita separately in a bowl… except the curd itself, which existed only in my imagination that day!

By around 3 PM, we finally caught our first glimpse of Pangong Tso.

And oh my God… what a sight it was.

The lake was partially frozen — my very first experience seeing a frozen lake in real life. It is impossible to describe the feeling of witnessing something so magical for the first time. Mid-April, I realized, is truly one of the best times to visit Ladakh because you get to experience the beauty of both winter and summer together.

As we drove closer, the scenery became increasingly surreal. Before we could fully absorb one breathtaking view, another even more beautiful one appeared. There was never a moment where the landscape stopped amazing us.

The lake initially appeared as a vast frozen white sheet stretching endlessly into the mountains. Slowly, patches of melted water emerged, revealing the most mesmerizing deep turquoise shades I had ever seen — nature’s most exquisite artwork.

Just then, Dhrupad suddenly started complaining of severe stomach pain again. Naturally, I became worried. We stopped near the frozen part of the lake and checked his oxygen saturation immediately, which thankfully showed a reassuring 94. The doctor had already warned us that the rough roads could trigger motion sickness, so we gave him some medication and let him rest inside the vehicle.

At that moment, he refused to even step out and see the lake. Honestly, I felt heartbroken. But prioritizing health, and I had mentally prepared myself to stay back in the car with him if needed.

Then I casually suggested that I wanted to throw stones on the frozen lake to check whether the ice was strong enough to walk on. That tiny spark was enough. The adventurer inside him suddenly woke up again.

Slowly, Dhrupad stepped out of the car, and almost magically, his “wolf numbers” — as he liked calling his energy meter — returned to normal! Soon, he became completely absorbed in experimenting with the ice. He started throwing stones of different sizes and weights onto the frozen lake, carefully “analyzing” whether the ice could support human weight.

Unfortunately, the ice did not seem thick enough for us to safely walk on it. So we wisely decided to admire it from a distance and continue our little experiments from the shore instead.

But what a sight it was!!

For a moment, I completely forgot about everyone around me and literally jumped in joy like a child. It felt magical. Surreal. Dreamlike.

Near the lake were the famous scooters and seating arrangements inspired by the movie 3 Idiots, and we ended up playing musical chairs, laughing endlessly, and simply soaking in the beauty around us.

As evening approached, the winds became sharper and the cold intensified rapidly. It was finally time to say goodbye to the frozen lake and head toward our stay located along the banks of Pangong on the other side.

We had been warned repeatedly about the extreme cold during Pangong nights, but our stay turned out to be one of the coziest and most beautiful places imaginable.

The room had been preheated before our arrival, and stepping inside felt incredibly comforting after the icy winds outside. It was a tiny yet perfect little space — with a warm bed, a massive glass window opening directly toward the lake and mountains, and even a transparent roof panel with shutters for stargazing. It honestly felt like heaven.

At that moment, I truly felt that a tiny cozy home amidst nature like this was worth far more than huge luxurious houses people spend years chasing.

Dinner was served fresh, hot, and delicious as always. One thing that pleasantly surprised us throughout Ladakh was how easily available rice and rotis were everywhere, making food very manageable even during long trips.

Later in the evening, we visited the lake once again. The winds were freezing cold by then, and the chill pierced right through us, but the beauty of Pangong under the fading evening light made every second worthwhile.

Back in the room, we settled comfortably beneath warm blankets and stared endlessly at the night sky through the transparent roof. Sleep simply did not feel important anymore.

The sky in Pangong looked completely different from anything I had ever seen before — unbelievably clear, vast, and alive. We even spotted a few meteor showers streaking across the darkness.

And just like that, another extraordinary day in Ladakh passed far too quickly, leaving behind memories that would stay with us forever.

Day 5 — Hanle, Rezang La, and a Journey Through History and Harsh Realities

The next destination on our journey was Hanle Observatory — home to one of the world’s highest astronomical observatories and one of India’s most sophisticated telescopes.

For someone like me, who deeply loves astronomy, Hanle felt nothing less than a temple. Visiting this remote village had been one of the biggest highlights on my Ladakh wishlist. The area is also recognized as the Hanle Dark Sky Reserve (HDSR), India's first, to minimize light pollution.

From Pangong Tso to Hanle, there were two possible routes:

One via the lake region, another through Rezang La near the Indo-China border

Naturally, my first choice was the scenic lakes route. However, fate had other plans.

While stopping on the way to photograph a group of yaks, I suddenly developed a severe back sprain. The pain was so intense that even moving became difficult. Seeing my condition, our driver immediately suggested taking the Rezang La route instead, as it had comparatively better roads and avoided the heavy off-roading terrain of the previous day.

That unexpected decision turned out to be one of the best choices of the trip — because otherwise, I would have completely missed the incredible experience of Rezang La.

Rezang La is not just another mountain pass. It is a deeply emotional place that stands as a memorial to the brave soldiers who fought in the Sino-Indian War near the Line of Actual Control (LAC).

Standing there, listening to the stories of the war while actually being on the very land where history unfolded, was a goosebumps-inducing experience. The soldiers pointed out the surrounding terrain — showing which hills belonged to India, which lay across Chinese territory, and how strategically significant the entire region remains even today.

Reading about the 1962 war is one thing. Standing there and imagining the courage, sacrifice, and unimaginable hardships faced by those soldiers is something entirely different. It fills you with immense pride, gratitude, and humility.

The soldiers we met also spoke about how much infrastructure and logistical support in these extreme terrains had improved over the years. Listening to them made us realize how difficult life truly is for the people guarding those borders day and night.

As we continued our journey, we passed through the beautiful village of Chushul. Concerned about my back pain, our driver took me to a government healthcare center operating under the Pradhan Mantri Ayush scheme. I must honestly say — the experience left a deep impression on me.

The center was fully functional, active, and extremely efficient despite being located in such a remote high-altitude region. The doctors immediately checked my vitals, prescribed medicines, and even suggested an injection for faster relief. While waiting there, I noticed several small children calmly standing in line for vaccinations with incredible courage and discipline.

One thing that amazed me throughout Ladakh was the absence of flashy private hospitals. The locals primarily depend on government healthcare services, and surprisingly, the system seemed to work with sincerity and trust. The people there genuinely help one another without the constant commercial mindset we often see elsewhere. 

After the treatment, medicines, and sprays, they charged me only ₹10 and even provided emergency contact numbers in case I needed any further assistance.

Such warmth, simplicity, and grace are difficult to forget.

I must also specially appreciate our driver throughout the trip. He noticed even the smallest signs of discomfort and constantly suggested ways to make our journey easier. At one point, he calmly mentioned that almost 8 out of 10 visitors to Ladakh experience AMS in some form. And honestly, I understood what he meant.

Ladakh is raw and powerful. If you slow down, respect nature, and move peacefully with it, the mountains embrace you. But if you push too hard, the land can quickly become unforgiving.

By evening, we finally reached Hanle — and that was when the real cold hit us.

Unfortunately, our stay there turned out to be the least comfortable experience of the trip. There were no proper heaters initially, and the freezing temperatures became extremely difficult to handle. Thankfully, we had carried body warmers, which we spread across the beds to make sleeping possible.

Although the host eventually arranged a heater around 9 PM, the electricity was switched off by 10 PM, making it practically useless.

The biggest disappointment, however, was missing out on stargazing.

Hanle is world-famous for its dark skies and astronomical observations, but that night the moonlight was extremely bright, creating too much natural light pollution. As a result, proper stargazing became impossible.

That evening itself, we made a difficult but practical decision — to cut short our Hanle stay by one day and return early to Leh.

Looking back, it was absolutely the right call.

It also meant skipping Umling La, currently considered one of the world’s highest motorable passes at nearly 19,000 feet. Under different circumstances, skipping Umling La would have deeply disappointed me. But by then, both physically and mentally, we were exhausted. Even Dhrupad, who had earlier been wildly excited about snow and mountains, no longer seemed interested.

That night in Hanle felt unusually long. The cold, discomfort, and sleeplessness made it seem as though dawn would never arrive. And yet, despite the hardships, the day still carried unforgettable memories.

We had bid goodbye to the magical Pangong Lake, watched it gradually stretch into Chinese territory, stood at the historic grounds of Rezang La, travelled through endlessly changing desert mountain landscapes, and experienced another raw, unpredictable side of Ladakh.

Not every day in Ladakh was comfortable. But every single day was unforgettable.

Day 6 — Tso Moriri, Hot Springs, and the Journey Back to Leh

Day 6 began with relief more than excitement.

The moment dawn broke, we woke up quickly, packed with the bare minimum effort, and were more than ready to leave Hanle behind. After a quick breakfast, we headed toward the famous .

A short uphill climb later, we finally stood before the sophisticated telescope I had dreamt of seeing for years. The observatory housed the 2-meter Himalayan Chandra Telescope (HCT) and the Major Atmospheric Cherenkov Experiment Telescope (MACE). For an astronomy lover like me, simply being there felt deeply special. Surrounded by stark mountains and endless silence, the observatory carried an almost sacred aura.

After clicking a few memorable photographs, we began our journey toward our next destination — Tso Moriri, one of the highest freshwater lakes in the world.

And once again, Ladakh unfolded like poetry.

The landscapes changed constantly, almost like flower petals slowly opening one after another. Along the route, we crossed frozen rivers, tiny frozen lakes, vast cold deserts, and even swirling whirlwinds dancing across the barren plains.

At some moments, the scenery felt so surreal that it almost seemed impossible!

By around 1 PM, we finally reached . Thankfully, the sun was shining brightly, though sharp cold winds swept across the lake every now and then.

Compared to Pangong, Tso Moriri felt smaller and quieter — but equally breathtaking in its own unique way.

What fascinated us most was the condition of the lake itself. Along the edges, the water had partially thawed into crystal-clear transparency. Peering into it, we could actually see icicles suspended beneath the icy surface. Further ahead, sections of semi-frozen textures appeared, while the middle remained covered in solid sheets of ice. It was absolutely gorgeous.

There was something incredibly graceful and gentle about Tso Moriri. Unlike Pangong’s dramatic grandeur, this lake felt softer, calmer, almost feminine — like looking at an extraordinarily beautiful woman draped in silence and elegance.

On the way back, we also visited a smaller lake called kyagar Tso.. This one was fully fully frozen and what a beautiful sight ! It seemed all the way that the road led directly into the waters of Kyagar Tso! Had a small pit stop here too!

Our next stop was Puga Hot spring!

When we first arrived, all we could see was a vast grassy plain with wild horses peacefully grazing around. The actual hot spring, however, was located nearly one or two kilometers away. And walking on those were treacherous ! At that altitude, even walking short distances felt exhausting, with every step demanding heavy breathing and extra oxygen.

So we admired the springs from a distance.

And what a sight it was.

The boiling water shot nearly five feet high into the air, spraying warm steam all around. Watching steaming hot water erupt from the frozen cold landscape felt beautifully contradictory — almost oxymoronic in nature’s own magical way.

The freezing winds outside and the warmth rising from the springs created an unforgettable contrast.

By then, we were all starving and desperately looking for lunch. Luckily, we reached , another beautiful hot spring region - Chumthang valley.

Right across the small hotel where we stopped for lunch, bubbling geothermal water flowed actively beside the road. The atmosphere itself felt warm and comforting — made even more fascinating by the icy cold flowing just a few inches away.

Experiences like these stay with you forever.

Even the animals there looked extraordinary. Their thick furry coats were so dense that at first glance, one could easily mistake a cat for a tiny leopard!

At the small eatery, a young girl served us steaming hot rice with freshly prepared rajma curry. After days of travel food, that simple homemade meal felt heavenly. We ate wholeheartedly, and Dhrupad too finished his meal with complete satisfaction.

And the most surprising part?

That soulful meal cost only ₹30 per plate.

Ladakh quietly teaches you that the best things in life do not always come with a heavy price tag.

After lunch, we finally began our long drive back toward Leh . Somewhere during the return journey, Dhrupad jokingly announced that his “health levels” had improved to “minus 10 million” — his dramatic way of saying he was completely fine at home after days of adventure. Right from TsoMoriri to Leh, the entire journey had the Indus river flowing right next to us and the colors of the river were different shades of blue, calmly going on a journey from China to Pak via Ladakh and Kashmir! 

By around 7 PM, we finally reached the same hotel where our Ladakh journey had begun. But the river had a long way to go!

And strangely enough, returning there truly felt like coming home.

Completely tired, emotionally full, and carrying countless memories from the mountains, we quietly called it a day.

Day 7 - A complete rest day

Yes this day we did nothing.  Just changed rooms eat,  sleep, repeat! That was wonderful! Yes Ladakh needs to be explored slow! Hurrying up is digging our own grave!

The day spent doing nothing was also a rare things which is impossible way back home! How nice it is just to vile away time eating food readily served,  sleeping through warm cozy sheets watching your favorite series , which was 1 piece - Dhrupad s fav then! I to enjoyed watching it and he had so much to share and explain about the characters,  story etc in that , reminded me of someone who used to do that before Dru was born! 

A day of relaxation came to a peaceful end!

Day 8 - A Final Day in Leh Before Goodbye

Our last full day in was reserved for the sightseeing we had missed after deciding to skip earlier in the trip.

To his credit, our driver was extremely kind and accommodating throughout the journey. He honestly adjusted the itinerary wherever possible and made sure we could still experience the important places we had hoped to visit.

Our first stop for the day was the beautiful Thiksey monastery, one of the oldest and most iconic monasteries in Ladakh. However, after climbing quite a few monasteries earlier in the trip, both Dhrupad and I decided to skip the uphill climb this time and instead simply enjoy the surrounding landscapes and atmosphere.

And honestly, that turned out to be wonderful in its own way.

While my friend and her son explored the monastery, we spent time soaking in the vibrant energy around the place. There were passionate bikers arriving in groups, travelers from different corners of the world, and even an energetic group of people in their seventies who were travelling with unbelievable enthusiasm and adventure spirit.

Watching them was truly inspiring.

We also ended up making a few lovely acquaintances there. One solo woman traveler even taught us some creative photography ideas, while a few other photography enthusiasts turned out to be even more obsessed with clicking pictures than I was! Until then, I had always believed I was the most camera-happy person around — but clearly, I had competition. Somehow, that realization felt oddly comforting and funny!

Our next stop was the famous Druk padma karpo school  , popularly known as the “Rancho School” from the movie . Visiting the place instantly brought back memories from the film. We spent some relaxed time at a nearby café enjoying beverages, picked up a few souvenirs, and simply enjoyed the cheerful atmosphere.

From there, we headed to what is often referred to as Leh mall- the world’s highest mall and cinema complex in the world. After days of mountain travel and local cuisine, our taste buds suddenly craved familiar comfort food, and we happily indulged in pizzas and KFC there! Even our driver joined us this time, and the entire meal felt more like friends casually hanging out than a typical tourist outing.

Post lunch, we visited the magnificent Leh Palace.

What fascinated me most about Leh Palace was that it wasn’t grand or luxurious in the traditional royal sense. Instead, its beauty lay in its thoughtful architecture and simplicity. The palace reflected intelligent planning — designed to accommodate large numbers of people while naturally retaining warmth in the harsh climate.

I especially loved the extensive use of reusable and natural materials in the structure, along with the elegant paintings, artwork, and simple decorative elements throughout the palace. Nothing felt excessive, yet everything carried beauty and purpose. In many ways, it perfectly matched my own taste — simple, practical, and graceful.

Exploring the palace was an experience in itself, and the views from the upper levels were absolutely stunning. By the time we reached the 11th floor, the panoramic view of Leh and the surrounding mountains felt like the perfect final glimpse of the city.

We concluded the evening with shopping at the lively Leh Market, especially the charming Tibetan colony area.

One thing that consistently stood out throughout Ladakh was the honesty of the people.

At one shop, while I was searching for fresh apricots, the shopkeeper smiled and casually remarked:

“Ma’am, you must have seen apricot blossoms everywhere recently. Come back in August for the real fruits!”

Instead of trying to sell old stock, they honestly admitted that only dried apricots were available and that the fresh ones wouldn’t be good yet. That straightforward sincerity felt refreshing and rare.

The colorful wind chimes hanging across the shops instantly caught my attention too. They were so beautiful that I simply couldn’t resist buying them. One of them is still waiting to reach its intended receiver… though perhaps it may remain with me forever.

On the way back, we stopped near blooming apricot trees to click a few final photographs. The soft pink blossoms transformed the rugged Ladakh landscape into something almost magical.

And just like that, Day 8 came to an end — slow, peaceful, reflective, and filled with gratitude.

Day 9 - Back home!

Started by 8am after breakfast, directly to the airport! And you are all familiar with the airport stuff! 🙄

And finally back home!!

In summary, we 4 had a great time, my friend and her son were a great company, though silent in nature, Dhrupad got them into the mischievous mode with his own mischief! They quickly caught up with Dhrupad's slangs and used them given a chance! Dhrupad was so pleasantly surprised to hear back his own words, expressions and the iconic statements, OMG!!! All in all, a great trip !

All is well!!!


The gift  

Posted by Divya A L

The truth arrives quietly —

In the effort that was never returned,

In how easily they lived without you.

You realize you were never chosen,

only tolerated.


Your presence was convenience, not love.

And when you finally see their peace in your absence,

everything becomes clear.

So you step away — not in anger,

but in understanding.


Because distance isn’t just healing for you —

it’s a gift to them too,

the silence they always wanted.

And somehow, there’s a deep, quiet satisfaction

in finally giving them what they had been yearning for —

especially on a day meant to celebrate them.

Scary Shewarma - A game I got to play this evening with my son and his friend!!  

Posted by Divya A L

 This evening around 9 PM, my son and his friend practically dragged me out of the house to play with them. Not for a regular or a standard game! I was hesitant at first — after all, they’re around 10 years old, and I wasn’t sure I’d fit into their world of games and imagination. Reluctantly (and with a little curiosity), I gave in. And I’m so glad I did.

They took me to a quiet corner of our apartment campus and announced the name of the game with great excitement: Scary Shawarma.

The idea was surprisingly creative. One or two players run a shawarma shop, while others act as customers walking in. The twist? The shop owners have to closely observe the customers and figure out whether they are “normal” or suspicious — almost like watching people on a security camera.

The customers secretly use gestures, expressions, and subtle actions as clues, trying to make it difficult for the shop owners to identify them correctly. It’s a game of keen observation, alertness, and quick decisions. If the shop owners feel something is off, they must immediately shut the shop. If everything seems fine, they serve the customer.

What amazed me was how thoughtful the whole game was — filled with sign language, acting, strategy, and attention to detail. I was fooled more than once (okay, maybe three times 😄), and every round became more thrilling than the last.

Despite starting out unsure, I found myself completely immersed — laughing, concentrating, trying to catch tiny clues, and genuinely having fun. For those moments, I wasn’t a 40-year-old adult anymore. I was just another excited player in a make-believe world.

My son later told me that if I joined daily, more of his friends would come, and the game would become even more fun with many customers acting differently each time. And honestly, I can already imagine how exciting that would be.

It was such a simple game — yet so rich in creativity, bonding, and joy.

Sometimes, all it takes is saying yes to a child’s invitation to rediscover a part of yourself you thought was long gone. Thanks to Scary Shawarma, I felt like a child again after many years — and it was beautiful.

2025 - A roller coaster ride  

Posted by Divya A L

This year has been a roller coaster ride filled with both challenges and beautiful experiences. It began with the tragedy of my father’s accident on January 7th, which led to a three-month hospitalization. This difficult period was an eye-opener, revealing who genuinely cared for us. Many who needed to step away naturally did, while those who truly supported us became a source of strength. The four months we spent navigating this situation drained us physically, economically, and psychologically. I am profoundly grateful to everyone who stood by me during this trying time—I can’t thank you enough.


Alongside these personal challenges, I had to deal with various school-related issues, which added to my stress, but eventually, I managed to sort everything out. By the second half of the year, things took a delightful turn as I embarked on a series of travels. I made the most of my vacations, beginning with a small tour to the Western Ghats with my cousins, followed by another trip to Coorg in the summer. These places mirrored my life journey, with the uphill climbs symbolizing the effort needed to achieve worthwhile goals and the breathtaking downhill paths leading to stunning waterfalls. The journey, though challenging, proved to be incredibly rewarding.


One of the highlights was my first trip to Rajasthan, where I explored the four vibrant cities renowned for their pink, blue, golden, and lake-side hues. Initially skeptical about visiting North India, I ended up completely captivated by its rich history and culture. This trip was also Dhrupad's first long vacation, and it turned out to be a fantastic experience. The predominance of Hinduism in the area was striking, as there were hardly any individuals from other faiths, and each city boasted over 200 temples. We stayed in some of the finest hotels, which was a great perk of traveling during the off-season. My thanks go to the friend who meticulously planned this trip and to our amazing driver and guide. The food was a delight, especially for vegetarians, and the shopping was a paradise!


Following Rajasthan, I traveled to Mahabalipuram in Chennai for a relaxing beach resort getaway. To our fortune, the weather was pleasantly cool, allowing us to enjoy our stay without needing fans! The largely empty beach offered stunning views from the nearby rocks, much to Dhrupad's delight as he was accompanied by his best friend.

Another downside this year was the hospitalization of Dhrupad in November due to severe throat infection ! Poor kid, suffered a lot and I don't wish that for anyone ever! Took a generous amount of time for recovery but finally all was well. 

The highlight of my travels came when I took an unplanned, last-minute trip to Kashmir. Initially hesitant about the political situation and weather conditions, I ultimately decided to go ahead, leaving our fate to the divine. This turned out to be one of the best decisions of the year. Kashmir, often called the “jewel crown of India,” took my breath away with its stunning landscapes. Each location was unique and exuded a beauty like I've never seen before. The culture felt markedly different from Rajasthan, almost foreign, as it accommodated extreme weather and had a predominantly Muslim population. We encountered only three individuals from other faiths during our stay, which initially felt intimidating. However, the local people’s hospitality quickly dispelled any apprehensions. They treat tourists with reverence, making every effort to ensure we felt safe and comfortable. Their modesty and sincerity were evident, as tourism is integral to their livelihoods, and they never sought tips, often displaying gentlemanly behavior.

With a different mindset, shaped by suggestions from others, we adhered to the tourism agency's guidelines, which made our experience even more enriching than we anticipated. The people there seemed to have Turkish or Persian ancestry, characterized by their tall, handsome figures and beautiful women, with distinct dialects that further highlighted the cultural uniqueness. The initial atmosphere was intimidating, but by day two, I felt much more at ease. Our journey included a tour of one of the Shakti Peethas, and Srinagar, known for its minimal alcohol outlets, provided a refreshing experience. Wandering through apple orchards, exploring Zoji La Pass, Kargil, Sonamarg, Gulmarg, and Dal Lake, each destination felt like a slice of paradise.I must mention our guide in Gulmarg, who was exceptionally sincere and down-to-earth, taking care of us with the utmost kindness. The beauty of Kashmir felt like proof that God had spent extra time crafting this spectacular landscape. 


 Another noteworthy thing-  I made tremendous strides in badminton this year, completing over 100 matches thanks to the Playo App. This experience allowed me make good acquaintances and friends. 

Also in the apartment we moved in newly,  took part in lot of community activities that are memorable and Dhrupad made a lot of friends. Earlier he wouldn't step out of the house to go play outside and now he doesn't come home at all! :( 

In summary, this year encapsulated the good, the bad, and the ugly, but overall, it has been a fantastic journey. I was grateful to experience the 3Ss - sand, sea, and snow in one year, re igniting my passion and love for travel. I eagerly look forward to new adventures in 2026, with plans that include:


1. Everest Base Camp Trek

2. Kailash Mansarovar yatra

3. Return to Kashmir


This year has not only expanded my horizons but also deepened my appreciation for travel and the beautiful connections we forge along the way.

Self reflection - JK's perspective  

Posted by Divya A L

After listening to many of J. Krishnamurthy's talks,  finally there is something we all can get a little help for ourselves - "self help". Literally so,  which he emphasizes time and again,  that we are truly the ones who can help ourselves by observation with undivided attention to our thoughts and feelings and importantly minimizing the usage of the most glorified part of our body- the brain/mind. Eliminating or keeping it at minimal usage, Jiddu talks about observing oneself and the surrounding , registering your feelings , subconscious actions while also dismissing the default action of our brain's inference engine,  that creates the "image" of a certain thing or somebody and living with it for decades to pass. 

At first, when I started listening to him, I quite did not get down to the profoundness of his talk. He spoke about undoing all the seasoning that has been done to us right from our birth into believing a lot of stuff which have now become an integral part of our being that one doesn't even question of its origin.  The rules are built and a foundation has been laid by the demands of the religion, society, culture and everything into our thinking. His very first talk, I listened to, was to to be free from what is learnt already, with or without the facts of it. The brain has been trained with tremendous amount of information - the good, the bad and the ugly - of which, some are true , some false or some,  based on a belief system. But he says if one must seek the truth of all of it, one has to undo the damage already done to our minds/brains which is now only an inference engine based on the past data fed. 

So, what is all this supposed to mean? It means, we would stop to think and search for the truth of what is, the moment we look upto something or someone who has instant, readymade answers to our problems. It is easy , to learn, to accept , to adapt instead of trying to experience and doing it all on our own. In the process, everytime we are "trained" or "taught" ,  subtle vital information falls off the canvas little by little, generation to generation and finally presents itself with an over simplified set of rules. An analogy to this is making a movie of a book. One has to admit that the movies cannot do justice to the books written and miss out on one or the other aspect of the entire experience/ story/ descriptions and what not! Everyone seeks instant gratification. We are restless, we dont want to observe , think or act responsibly. All one cares about is to temporarily put forth the troubles, ignore it for time being, make "adjustments" or don't even want to think about the problem and let go of it altogether.

Talking about the problems - one cannot solve them with the mind or brain in action. For each of us are presented with different problems, different in nature, different in size and weight, different in texture, print and color. One size doesn't fit everyone. Yes, we do have some rules and ready made solutions but does that really solve the problem from the root? If it doesn't, it recurs. For really removing it with the roots, one has to observe the nature of the problem, just observe without any prejudice, without already working on a solution, just observe - yourself, the circumstance that landed you in this. Observe how your body reacts to each of the significant series of events that had occured in the past that ended up in this event. Through that observation will you know and understand yourself - what you liked in the process, what you hadn't approved of, then go back into each of those and try to see what you felt on each of the flashes. Once you are self aware to such an extent, you will exactly be able to identify the real root of the problem. If one creates an image of the entire episode like a trailer, you wouldnt ever be able to address it. Look back in every detail and note down your feelings. Understanding the problem correctly is 90% of the problem solved. All this keeping your mind and brain at complete rest without analysing and processing your experiences. One has to allow the mind to only let it register the events and your reaction to them and stop it there. Once it goes beyond that, the mind stores the result of the analysis in our brains rather than the actual actions. To put it simply, if a person keeps falling sick when he eats icecreams, the mind registers and concludes ice cream itself as sickness instead of trying to find out what is it in an icecream does my body doesnt approve of! Like a doze of steroid, it kills the bad cells at the cost of a million more good ones! And this is how one makes up pictures or images of something or someone. Mind is a two sided sword, that kills and gets killed. It harbors bias, prejudice not only within us, but also goes on to spread it to others like a virus. Because other minds are waiting to be served. Once the "images" get created, you are stuck in it for ages and sometimes indefinitely. 

He also explains time. Time is the lapse of how we were from yesterday to today. Time is a change. We, part of nature are always changing. Time is the reflection of a change. When you let the images form in your mind stay,  from past experience or from the sayings of others or reading about it somewhere,  or being a follower of culture,  religion, guru, etc etc, basically you have made up your mind that the image you have made up is a constant. To simply give an example,  the west has had a strong opinion on "India" that it is poor,  lacks infrastructure,  prone to diseases, etc etc that whoever visits India are prejudiced with such lame information. Maybe it was so, once upon a time, but no longer so. So the "time" is constantly a non constant. Something or someone today will not be the same tomorrow. Change is inevitable,  it's a law of nature. Of course it can be for better or worse. But there is a change. The mind performs wonderfully well only if it registers events and not let it analyze/infer/deduce its consequences taking it to the future. Instead, introspect, why you(based on the subconscious reaction) liked or didn't like a certain thing. Explore more about yourself. Observe what is the root of your response,  root of the situation and possibly introspect and know yourself and your boundaries. This works , works to the fullest,  an absolute,  for,  so many times we have been through and realized it all a little late.  And that is why perhaps, for instance,  if you put your mind to use in decisions based on past experience or someone else's perspective,  and you come across it/ them again,  you may feel differently as against your mind 's analysis. The feeling is what one  should trust. Don't ignore your body language. The body language, the subconscious acts talk much louder than our minds. Use your brain only as a store to record events and your actions/reactions/ responses and cut it at that. Don't really attempt at making changes in your mind terms(conditioning it) to suit a certain need,  because that never works,  sooner or later, let's you down. Going down the root of the problem, eliminates it totally completely. It's not a mere adjustment at that instance,  it's "the end" to it. 

In fact we may all have done it,  without conscious observation but gave up for one reason or the other mid way. The reason could be a mere distraction,  no time(biggest illusion we have created for ourselves), other duties,  responsibilities or priorities, or just not able to concentrate enough to figure it out, the image we gave of ourselves and the blind confidence of our seasoning throughout our lives. 

But I think there is one thing that is common which we know universally and the workings of our body language and our inner self. It's called "values". Not the values a particular religion preaches,  not that of a custom,  tradition,  not that the gurus talk about,  but it is our own body alert mechanism which cautions,  v v briefly, on our actions, keeps a check, impromptu, without absolute involvement of the mind or brain,  not that it's caused out of fear (the tit for tat theory, that if I do something wrong,  it comes back to me), but in its simplest form,  just a glitch of your sub conscious that pops out for a v brief time , cautioning you,  warning you, of the action you are about to perform. PAY ATTENTION TO THAT! IT'S AN ACTION IN MAJOR PROBABILITY YOU'LL REGRET doing and the guilt would haunt you!

A wrong action from us,  our body alerts us (observe we are absolutely not giving any work to our brain) . And as our generations in the past whoever did pay attention,  used their brain to probably termed it as "values". The moral science we are taught at school, more or less signifies this,  but the only difference is that it is "taught". Taught with stories,  taught with talking about feelings and emotions, taught with thinking to put oneself in others' shoes and all that.  This teaching is moderately good but to know what it means to ethically , morally be good is to understand it deeply which comes through experiencing it oneself through the situations presented in the stories.  The emotions and feeling it takes us through will be the most effective than a mere story listening,  isn't that correct? Also these moral stories that are "taught" are not all surely practical. One cannot tell the murderer the truth of where the victim is hiding. If your brain gets seasoning to believe the absolutes of a mere teaching from someone else,  it is bound to go wrong. So it's important to introspect oneself. 

In our lives,  we may not experience the same set of turbulence, emotions , the problem and the nature of it are all varied and guage differently. Hence it is important to experience and observe the emotions the body goes through, without any prejudice, keeping aside the mind and brain totally out of that experience and know oneself.  

In essence,  observation is the key,  and the only key to get past our problems. And equally important is also the images that get formed in the brain of a person place it a thing. 

Jiddu says,  essentially,  in this ever changing world, stop - 

1. creating images, opinions in the mind of something someone or a certain situation

2.  analyzing  to derive futuristic conclusions,

Instead observe, fully,  completely, giving your 100%, without bias, without looking for solutions till you get to the root of the problem. Once you are at the root, problem is understood as is. There are no deviations. Its unilateral, no strings attached. Pay high attention to your subtle communication of the body and sub conscious responses and register the feelings,  emotions.  Don't let mind to deviate from there, let it flow,  experience it fully, consciously, not looking for solutions till you get to the root of it. Once you get there, you will know what to do,  without putting the mind into action. That will be the end of that misery. All of the rest are only temporary arrangements and never will one be free of it as it recurs again and again. Acceptance after observation of what is, is the ultimate truth. Your non thinking responses are crucial. Your feelings when you are with someone or how you behave subconsciously in a situation are all very active communication to yourself.

Another best example of this is the kids' behavior. Kids cry, get angry, show tantrums - do they hate you? Absolutely no. They are the non verbal communication of something that they disliked, something of their needs or wants. Anger especially is a reflection of hopelessness of trying to get the other person understand your point of view. When there is no reception of your feelings, will the anger surface. The unheard feelings are translated into anger by mind - its yet another way a mind tries to tactically reinforce your point. If the anger is not being acknowledge the last the mind retorts to is crying. If the communication of a person if not understood or misunderstood, the mind tries various ways to put it across - repetition, anger, cry and finally give up, resulting in agony , despair, resentment and depression. Anger is a very strong non verbal communication to show your non compliance or disagreement or not being heard or of discomfort. Most often than not, it is usually misunderstood for the lack of patience. The children are the best educators for understanding and observing , for they genuinely communicate their behaviors as their minds are not totally "trained" or "seasoned" to supress their feelings. A child having exaggerated behaviors is in fact a sign of good emotional and mental health, the one that of "unseasoned" being! They can observe and accept only for what is. Such children are found to be tough to be handled by the "seasoned" parents.

Our body and conscious are the masters of our life! Embrace it, give it total attention, listen to what it has to say, act without prejudice. Getting to the root of the problems and identifying it correctly as is,  is half problem solved. 

"Mind cannot understand, it may only translate an understanding unto an action, but by itself  cannot understand. To understand there must be the warmth of recognition and reception, which only the heart can give when the mind is silent." - JK.

Never in a billion light years....  

Posted by Divya A L

 The crying, the whining, the Greif and the pain

Drives you crazy , dizzy and insane

Once the precious,  the righteous, the courteous

turns vicious,  venomous and abnoxious...

Renders you futile, immobile , hostile and fragile

Ernstwhile, you were agile, versatile and very worthwhile!


The then - 

Couldn't can't care even for a second

Wouldn't won't think  not more than  a minute

And the now -

 Can't stand the presence in any sense

And everything turning utter non sense

Between the two, in wonder I'm awaken,

If the bridge was built or broken!


Never would this soul I'd want to come across, 

Never should our lives criss cross;

You were always mine but I never was yours

Never ever going to be,  even in the next billion light years!

Revving awfulness  

Posted by Divya A L

Words once spoken, 

Hearts one broken, 

Cannot be mended or repaired, they say !


But try and try again, 

Till you succeed, is the only way!


The heart sang the music of love

To another,  of deceit, fallacy , 

masked with Innocence , otherwise to prove!


Turning back to see what I had

It was a ride of a roller coaster, 

Where climbing up was a glee 

And a slip or a fall, was a never-to-return flee


It never was a simple push

But like that of a fisherman, 

with all his fishes  from the seven seas,

An effort of a lifetime

Hastefully being let for a shark's sumptuous meal


Why does it feel the way it feels

The heart cries and the mind reels

Into the abyss of twists and churns

Just waiting for it to pass...


While the mind says its alright

Doesn't at all end the incessant squirms

Are the intentions and thoughts so clouded if not bright

So blinding to even envision its smoggy brim?

My sunny boy's company!  

Posted by Divya A L

My engagement with you
Has had me relinquish every other activity, not involving you
You are my sunshine and moonlight
You are the only one who I always agree with,  to be right

My ears yearn to hear all that you speak
Your cute little words resonate my heart with musical rhythmic beats
Your smile is what my eyes seek
So cute so lovely , I'd instantly melt for that greet

You've been my ray of light
Inner struggles while I fight
Instantly stupifying the sorrows and grief
Like a magic spell, within a brief

Our long talks before the bed
Are like the bedtime stories to me
Listening to all that you'd said
I feel like a child again, enjoying the lullaby. 

Your words sometimes are so profound
Like a guide and the light of the Divine
Leaves me stunned and enthralled
A Lord in disguise,  my lifeline!




Self portraits  

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Dhrupad's self portraits! While I have picked up well on drawing in my Note 8, my son wanted to try it too. When asked what he'd like to paint, he said, "I want to paint myself".
In 10 minutes time, the picture on the left was ready. I saved it immediately ;)
He started to share details of the pic. 
He: "Mom, look, I am wearing the orange dress and a green T-shirt . I used to wear them when I was small.".
Me:" Wow, wonderful, is this small Dhrupad? But are you also wearing an orange mask?"
He: "No, but my skin color matched closely with only this color on this phone!"
Me: "Oh ok, never mind. Why are your eyes yellow in color?"
He: " No, it is light yellow. My eyes are not as white as the color here offers"
Me: "ok, closest match! Ok cool. Why dont you have any hair on your head?"
He: "Do you remember that you got my head shaven when I was small? So I have not drawn it here"
Honestly I didnt remember!
Me: "Why dont you have fingers in your hands and toes on your legs?"
He: "Mama, I was small then. So my hands feet and fingers were all small. See closely, you'll be able to see tiny tiny fists"
Me: "Ahaaa! I see... Ok, how do you look now?"
He immediately snatched the phone from me and started drawing further. As he drew he mumbled - "Now this is BIG Dhrupad!" As he said that, he extended his hands and legs that became the picture on the right.

Within no time, the current Dhrupad's portrait was ready. It was v hilarious and cute to watch the way he buddy extended the hands and legs and introduced bigger fists and feet (which he called fingers and toes!) I laughed my lungs out.

After a while I realized, it really did look like the grown up version. When I applied deeper thought, dont you think, the solutions to some problems can be as simple as this. We generally end up overthinking and bring in all other irrelevant things into picture. I awed at the simplicity of the thought, focus on what really was required and how beautifully it was achieved.

However, I still wanted to suggest some improvisations over the picture.
Me: "You've forgotten to draw the hair of grown up Dhrupad"
He quickly went to the mirror looked up and told me,"Mom, dont you remember, Dad cut my hair that day (he still doesnt know weeks, days etc). See, my hair is hardly visible now!!"

Well, the hair aspect was not overlooked after all. All the stuff were thought out in those few seconds to draw out a beautiful second self portrait!! Lot to learn from kiddos!! The real and natural things they know so much better than we grown ups and we try to teach them to be aware of the mishaps that can be caused due to man invented ideas and things.  If not for the things that society demands,  there is nothing that an adult can teach the kid. They are quite natural at knowing what to do, when,  socializing,  sympathizing and almost everything! The human instincts are at their best. 

COVID-19 - Does it see an end at all?  

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Coincidentally, the COVID-19, a dreadful virus surfaced in the year 2019 December with Wuhan, China being its epicenter. A lot has happened and has been happening since then. This quickly spreading Pandemic has reached almost 90% of the countries across the world and most of them are under lock-down as on today. Indian government has declared nationwide lock-down for 21 days which started on 24th March 2020. As people are eagerly waiting for the lock-down period to end, there lot of fun games, Quiz time and other interesting stuff doing rounds on Whatsapp, one of which is - "What is the first thing you will do after the lock-down?"

Well, many answered, they wanted to watch their favorite movie, visit their dream destinations, some just wanted to get out of the house, and some wanted the rest of the people out of their houses! :D The latter was my choice too and I love the idea of being quarantined single at my home! Lol... But on giving it a serious thought, apart from these answers, what is the real meaning of ending a lock-down? How does it guarantee that the Virus spread has/had stopped and the problem is mitigated? Will anyone dare go out knowing that people are picking this up even now or have been quarantined suspects of this deadly Pandemic?

The idea behind the lock-down from my perspective is this:
Considering the Virus life cycle to be 21 days, the areas and people affected and infected would end the cycle and break the chain of spreading it further. Absolutely a fantastic way to cut down further damage. But isn't it equally important to know when to end the lockdown. In India, lock-down was exercised in an earlier stage than in other countries like Italy, US and other European nations who have been the worst victims of this Pandemic. However, India , considering its massive population does see all the probabilities of entering all the stages that these other countries have been through and are at. Given this situation, when is the ideal time to end the lock-down?

Lets take a look at this from a logical angle:
COVID-19 is said to have ended under the following circumstances:
1. There have been no new cases registered in the past 7 days (incubation period) to 21 days (entire life cycle). 21 being the higher side, safer to pick this one to leave no stones unturned.
2. All the positive tested patients must be cured (tested negative in 3 consecutive tests with a gap of 5 days each) 
3. There shouldn't be any more such floating cases (like awaiting results, repeat tests etc)
4. All suspects who have been quarantined needs to be tested and confirmed negative.

Even if one of the above conditions are compromised, we will be back to square one. Also, the above cases are listed considering there is still a ban on international travels.

Lets derive the numbers with math now on best case possibility:

Considering the official lock-down end date is 15th of April:
This cannot be, because even as I write down this blog, many new cases are being identified. More suspects and cluster infections are identified too. If tracing people and their contacts shall easily take up a week's time, it takes few more weeks to identify and quarantine them to contain it, (unless they start showing symptoms, they may or may not require hospitalizations) best of worst case.  Please note that there are no tests conducted at this point of time. Only people who are symptomatic are tested. Corona virus can exist without symptoms too! 
Now the math: Even in this hypothetical scenario of best case (all samples been tested, no new cases from tomorrow and no new quarantines starting tomorrow and everyone strictly follows the lock-down guidelines and doesn't break rules), the lock-down cannot end before beginning next month. 7 days to track down contacts and 21 days of their quarantine.


Worst case:
This is a more easy one to derive : Until they find a vaccine and/or cure + 21 days !!

What is more feasible?
Instead of keeping the entire nation under lock-down, or having a blanket lock-down end date, it should be conducted in phases. The lock-down relaxation should happen from the lowest level. Today, the smallest unit of isolation is a house. The relaxation should expand at next levels like streets, blocks, communities, set of few blocks/lanes, group of communities, area etc. Before expanding an isolation level, the people in the current one should meet the 4 criteria above. This can be achieved with a tag or certificate indicating the test conducted date and the result. If in a street/block, all people are tested negative, the isolation level can be elevated to that of a street. They may not be fully equipped with all the rights but now they can at least visit houses, share a snack or watch a movie together in someone's house. The kids are especially benefited when they find their friends to play together. This elevation doesn't mean they still have an access to the outside world, but at least they have a better breathing space than earlier. The monitoring and surveillance of these small groups of people shall continue with revival checkups and updating the tags. Common entertainment areas if comes in the jurisdiction of the isolated expanse, that s a bonus! 

This can be tracked by some volunteers. I'm sure one volunteer to keep check of the condition of people in their lane (like taking temperatures, asking for help) in each lane/block/street will work wonders. Excuse me for giving this example (I wont be surprised if I get trolled for this) but, if you are in the IT industry, this is similar to having a scrum model where each volunteer is a scrum master and makes it easy for the people in that expanse to have a normal life. There can be a simple daily stand-up meetings too :D

The rules within an identified isolation area remains the same. Travelling outside the isolation area for work/community events, etc etc should be STRICTLY not allowed.  As and when the new expanse is identified,  it is important to also support them with basic essentials (which volunteers can take up). A small set of support staff can be confined to an expanse identified latest. When this happens in parallel at all places, we can at least get 80% of the country out of lock-down at the earliest. As the infrastructure and facilities improve to facilitate the lab tests, the quicker can we distance less.

Though its all easily said than done, the blanket coverage of a lock-down start or end shall not work and we will end up in a series of loops of such lock-downs, with perhaps, increased severity every-time. This may trigger frustration and agitation eventually and there maybe a day when the entire nation is let loose and things go haywire. God forbid we shall never see such a day!

PS:  Please excuse the language, grammar and typos in this post, if any.


Small but sweetest Joys of life  

Posted by Divya A L

Back from office, I stepped into the house
To see my little one postured like a mouse

He seemed busy with one of his toy
With admiration, my heart sung and danced for this cute little boy!

Dhrupu, I called out,  hugging from behind,
Covered his eyes with my palms stretched wide

In his ears I mumbled,  -"can you tell who this is?"
Ajji, thaatha, and all other names he started to guess

He chuckled after every name he had purposely gotten wrong,
His game of innocent smartness, ascertained the best throngs

When he finally guessed it was me,
I had to act I was v happy and gee

He then seemed to remember something
His face lit up suddenly , glowing

He said "Mom, look here, what I've made"
It pointed at the block of colorful Lego pieces , neatly laid

When asked what it was that he showed..
He proudly said it was a television with a remote control

I asked him why the TV was colorful...
He shhhhhed me to tell it was on and playing Jack and Jill

He also handed me another block of Lego
Said I could change the channel while on go

It didn't stop there, I was given 2 more blocks of it
He tested the remote and said,  "Oh! the remote batteries are dead,  use the new ones to charge it"

He used one if my Intel cards as a TV stand
Placed it in front of the real one, and merrily clapped his hands

Finally he said I looked tired and would get me some Tea
Within seconds I sipped through an empty cup,  seated on the settee

This small little incident was sheer joy in loads
In the epic of my sweet memoirs, this surely is an unforgettable episode!

BTW, here's a pic of his TV:

33 years and what have I learnt  

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This year I turned 33 and when I retrospect into what I accomplished so far in life, I guess I've grown more matured in my thoughts and actions. But this is exactly what I had thought about 5 years ago.  However, my thought process then and now are very far off and varied.

So is there a new definition for maturity or my perspective of maturity has changed?
Whatever it is, I haven't changed much as a person but somewhere a lot about me has changed.  One of them is that I'm a lot more independent! But at the same time, I've begun to notice many dependants on me who require my attention , care and consideration.  Needless to say my infant baby is one of them , on the other hand its my aging parents.

Of late, I find it very difficult to have a meaningful conversation with my parents.  Either they are too impatient or I am.  The once upon a time  "the most-friendly-relationship" with my parents (where I could speak anything and everything to them) has just turned upside down.  Many a time they are too impatient or adamant or stubborn. And since this behaviour is new to me, I too react with anger and impatience.  Honestly this is the last thing I'd want to do to them. They've all along been the best parents and I'd always vouch upon them for any kind of support. I keep contemplating on how it all turned out the way it is today.

Well, I have my personal bunch of issues that often come and go. I mostly choose to resolve them my way.  However my parents tend to think I'm wrong in the way I handle them and get too pissed off with it. I understand that they are concerned about my well being but when I'm ready to face the consequences of my actions they shouldn't be worried too much.

Many a time I've failed in my decisions, I have been backstabbed by people, my trust has been broken, I've been misunderstood. But these are the important learnings for me to know and discover better ways of doing things like how to prioritize(people or problems), what needs attention  and what needs ignorance,  whom to choose and whom to distance from most of all making wiser and thoughtful decisions. I have stopped blaming people, for, it is upto me on how I react to them.  The only thing I never want to stop doing is to stand up for the right things no matter what. Be it work or personal, be it strangers or close ones. When I retrospect, this behavioural aspect of mine has drawn me to some good friends and at the same time lose some good ones. I only wish and hope some day my intentions are understood the way I really intended them to be.

Now on the learnings,
1. Never to judge anyone.  Most often than not they are all right from their perspectives. Always give a benefit of doubt.
2. Independent! This teaches you a lot of things and most of all this is the one and only thing that leaves you satisfied for all your actions. You will not have a chance to blame anyone.
3. Never give up what you believe.
4. It is ok to disagree and commit as long as it is not personal.
5. Give people a second chance. After all the trust you invested demands a benefit of doubt - that things might have gone wrong unintentionally.
6. Try to make the best of every situation and make it a point to laugh as much as you can!
7. To make life as easier as possible without any complications.
8. Say no if you do not like something. 

Naming ceremony invite  

Posted by Divya A L in

After all the chinnus and minnus
Sweeties and Cuties, kabalis and bahubalis
My Mom Divya and my Dad Rammohan
Finally planned my Namakaran

Curious to know what I'll be called
Awaiting 21st of April 2017, for my name to be unvieled
At 10am, at Hotel Kadamba Guestline
Thats on the 1st floor,Kengeri Bus Stand Terminal, Mysore Road.

Please join this ceremony and grace the occassion
Call out my new name on top of your voice
To my tiny little brain, this shall be a training  session
A surprise awaits whoever calls it loudest and nice!

At 1pm, savour the traditional lunch
And yes, I don't want to miss a selfie with you bunch!
Your presence is a present enough
Don't bother gifting stuff!!

Venue