Posted by Divya A L

I again misjudged a person!! The person who "appeared" very sweet, matured, honest, jovial, caring, loving, of all, my best friend's beloved, turned out to be someone whom i wouldn't have imagined in the wildest of my dreams... The person was set up very well today to reveal the true colors which were striking so brightly to the eyes that i needed a goggle to escape them. I literally developed goosebumps after knowing about it. What an awefull world this is!!!

Just only 6 months ago, i had realised about my misjudgement about another devastatingly cruel person. Though i hadn't fully known to what extent this person was wicked and corrupt, i've grossed a good amount of it lately. This was one of the reasons i ran into sulekha. All my opinions of that person shattered into tens of thousands of pieces after reading that person's blogs (activities, rather) there.

Result - Hurt and pain that is undo-able whatsoever especially for someone who's hyper honest. Churns the stomach, takes away sleep, plenty of moisture in the eyes, brain jammed, insensitive to hunger-bite.

Moral of the stories - Never ever trust anyone. Don't let people so close to you that they start to rule your feelings. Be very cautious!! Forgive and forget!! One cannot carry the guilt of hurting others for long. One has to face its wrath sooner or later and it'll be too late for them to revert back.

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June 21, 2009 at 6:28 AM

:(. Yeah there are such people who are multi-faced and I had the experience of such people but only when I started to trust them. It feels like an arrow had pierced into my heart, never to come out. :(
Only time can take out that arrow along with the pain. :)
Forgive and forget, it helps to recover :)

June 21, 2009 at 7:55 PM

You need a mix of both kind of friends...Most often than not you learn more from such friends than 'good' friends..:)
Forgive and learn, it will make you a better and stronger person..:)

June 23, 2009 at 10:11 AM

@Sreejith: :)

@SD: Yeah... You trust someone and once they break it, it hurts.. To cover their falacies, people lie, and that hurts the most!!

@Dilip: RIGHTLY told. I totally agree with you. But the prob with this approach is that, it'll be too late before you realize what/who is good or bad!! But staying outside the ring, it'd be a nice game to play!!

June 23, 2009 at 7:39 PM

Bhool ja Jo hua use bhool ja hai kasam tujhe muskura
khud ko na de yun saza un yadon ko bhool ja

Writer's block??

July 6, 2009 at 11:59 AM

@SD: Yes i need to forget it all... After all i am a third person to be bothered about all these things!! Writer's block , yes.. it looks like :(

July 7, 2009 at 9:46 PM

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